Your will verify this information and permit you to purchase garments and temple clothing.
It seems to me that if your church or the leadership, demands that you suffer for your faith by wearing garments that put you in a position of, in my mind, deferring your thoughts and physical feelings, toward suffering and not toward your relationship with your congregation and a loving relationship with your G-d.
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Surely it's private to the ladies If I was or my wife was in a similar position we wouldn't announce it to anyone???? I know both bring immense blessings and feelings of joy and peace.